What is Baby Bunching?
Baby Bunching is two years of pregnancy and back-to-back infants and toddlers with nary a break for you. Baby Bunching means chaos for you, and your little twiblings. No worries, they become good friends as a result of your bunching strategy. You will become strong, creative, organized, calm and at peace with your new lifestyle without even realizing it.
Thank you babybunching.com for explaining that to me. Apparently that is what it's called. I thought it was called crazy, insane, out of your mind. But no, there is an actual term for the chaos that is my life. There are days when Matt and I want to lose it. Cleaning up dinner is a disaster, taking kids in and out of the car is exhausting bath time is hard and bedtime is a delight. But honestly, I would not have done this any other way. The connection, the closeness, the bond I see forming between the boys is absolutely incredible.
Lukas and Jakob build forts in their closet on the weekend. They hug and kiss when coming home from school. They are one another's best friend.
Zackary and Jakob giggle and crawl around the house like two little snakes. Zackary's eyes light up when he sees Jake. Jake greets Zackary in his crib each morning to sing songs out of Zackary's mouth.
Lukas feels he is Zackary's protector. He will do anything to keep his baby safe. He loves to feed, hold or just comfort Zackary. He wins the award for #1 big brother. Zackary crawls to Luke and squeals to him in thanks for his toys and Luke's attention.
They are all in this together. They want to be together to play, fight, wrestle, giggle...whatever. I can only imagine what the years ahead hold for us. While this is difficult road..I love it. The teamwork Matt and I have together makes it work...us work...our family work.



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