Mother's Day....quite possibly the most important holiday of the year

I dont say this because I am a mom and want to be celebrated but it is a day where I am able to reflect upon and really consider all the very important women in my life who have helped shape me into who I am...most importantly, my mom. 

This Mother's Day I did not feel like much should be celebrated of my current mothering. Being on bedrest has not allowed me much time with Lukas. Matt has taken over the role of Mommy and Daddy. In fact, when I woke up on Mother's Day, I was feeling down because it caused me to realize how much Matt is doing and how little I have been doing. But then Matt reminded me and made me realize I actually have been being a good mom, to Jakob. These past 8.5 weeks of bedrest have been VERY hard for me. While I realize I have modified it a bit to work for me, it has been a struggle each and everyday. However, I have done what I am supposed to do in order to make sure Jakob is safe and able to grow to be a healthy, strong baby boy. Also, the time I do spend with Lukas has been quality time. There is much more cuddling and reading together than ever before. I am not stressed out by work and able to focus on Lukas when he gets home from daycare. So infact, I have been a pretty good mom lately:)

My little guy

Like I mentioned above, I was really able to think about the women who have shaped me, inspired me and have taught me how to be a good mom, wife and woman. These women include my Nonie, my Gram and of course, my MOM! Through observation, I have learned so much through these wonderful women. 

My Gram, My Mom, Me and My Nonie...how lucky am I to be able to spend time with all of them!!!

What I've Learned:

*Treat everyone with kindness no matter what (Nonie)

*Family is the most important thing above all else. No matter what happens, never give up on it...everything works out in the end (Gram)

*Always believe in yourself and reach for your dreams no matter how far away they may seem (Mom)

*Words of encouragement and love mean so much when they show up at the most unexpected time (Nonie)

*Cherish each moment and make it a quality moment. Its not about the quantity. (Gram)

*While it may seem you as if you put yourself last, in the end you are the one who gains the most! (Mom)

*It is possible to be a great mom, wife AND teacher. Staying at home is not for everyone (Mom)

*I am so lucky to have three women in my life who are there for me NO MATTER what, you dont judge me, who love me for me, who put me first, who allow me to know I will never be alone. (Kristin)

I love you!

~Side Note: G. Whiz held a contest on the best advice your mom ever gave you....I WON! $50.00, whoo hoo!:)